One universal, undeniable, truth about becoming a parent is that your life changes in ways you cannot even fathom. Yes there is all the awesome stuff mixed in with all the madness, but nobody can sit you down and say that X, Y and Z are going to change when your kids arrive.
The same things don’t even change for everyone. Some folks might continue to play golf every weekend (great way to ruin a walk, by the way) and others may find their clubs after five years and wonder what they used them for.
The hilarious thing is those aspects of you life that change which you don’t even think will change.
Like making a simple phonecall.
Before we had Nugget and Jellybean phonecalls typically went like this between myself and Karen.
Karen: Hello, how are you?
Derek: Grand, work is a bit mental. Wanted to check if you want to watch that movie tonight?
Karen: Sounds lovely, gotta run. Love you, bye.
Derek: Love you too, bye.
But that is before kids. The following is an only slightly modified transcript of a call that happened today.
Derek: Hey, honey. How’s you’re day going.
Karen: Hey, baby. It’s going … no… no…don’t hit your brother. STOP HITTING FRODO. FRODO! SIT! SIT! We’re just back from….OLIVIA NO PUT THAT DOWN…Rush we went….NO NO NO NO DON’T DO THAT….hold on one second.
Phone is put down on a counter. Footsteps walk away.
Karen in the distance: Get over here now. Give me that. Frodo stop. Olivia will you put that down. Watch your brother. Thomas…come to mummy. Oh why are you crying. Up? You want up? FRODO STOP! Oh Olivia he didn’t mean to knock you over. Okay Thomas I’m just going to put you down for a second so that I can give Olivia a hug…
Sounds of children crying and dog barking. Something falls over and bangs on the ground.
Karen in the distance: FRODO!!! Okay Olivia I have to pick up Thomas now…you run inside there and get an apple.
Sounds of footsteps approaching the phone.
Karen: Hello? Who this?
So there you have it. Nobody tells you that having a simple two minute conversation with your other half becomes utterly impossible. Unless you don’t mind those conversations becoming conference calls with tiny terrorists.
Poor Frodo doesn’t even get a look in. He just wants his doggy naps.